Wednesday, September 28, 2011

Some more reading experiences

Another change in my daily routine is that instead of driving to work, I'm using the office cab. I last used the office conveyance more than 7 years ago, and then it used to be a bus - those were quite fun days. But I digress. So, there are 3-5 people in the cab, some days we chat, some days we don't. In the initial days, we usually didn't. So, even though it was only 25-30 minutes commute, I thought I might utilize it catch up on long-neglected reading. Didnt want to read anything heavy, so started with some relatively light re-reading.

First picked up "To Kill A Mocking Bird" (had read it twice earlier, 13 and 8 years ago, I think). Enjoyed it, as ever. Simple, endearing, enriching. Though, to be honest, read the last part of it in a quiet hour I managed to snatch at home. 

Next, I started on "The Bridges of Madison County". Had read it twice or thrice earlier, more than 6 years ago, and had seen the movie as well. I had mixed feelings about the movie, even though it was directed by and starred Clint Eastwood - I found it really well made, but very slow. The book though had a big impact on me - I had found it very intense, and extremely sad - so much so, that for years, I didnt want to read it again. But anyway, I thought it was good time to enjoy it again. Imagine my surprise - halfway through, I realized I wasn't enjoying it half as much as I did earlier. The intensity didnt come through, and there were parts that I found kitschy - particularly the part describing the love affair. I tried to see the reason for this extreme difference in experience. You change with time, and experience is undoubtedly a factor of the mental state. So was it because I have grown up and matured, that I didnt find the idealistic story quite realistic/creditable? Or was it because I read it on my short commutes, with so many breaks and interruptions, and therefore didnt get involved with the story? To try to get an answer, I looked for some reviews. Another surprise - the book, even though a huge best-seller, was panned as limp and overdone, while the movie was highly acclaimed. Perhaps time to revisit the movie.

There is an amusing incident for me, associated with this book. I still clearly remember the first time I read it - in IITD hostel, lying down in the common room, a borrowed copy. Few years after that, I remembered this book, and wanted a copy of my own. For a long time, I looked for it in all the bookshops, online stores, but it was out of print. Some of my close friends had assisted me in this search and so knew of my near-desperation. After looking for it for months, I finally found it in a bookstore, along with a sequel (A thousand country roads)!! I spared no time or second thoughts in purchasing them both. Barely a few days after this was my birthday, and I received a copy of TBoMC from a dear friend as a gift! And, another set of both books (from then my "good friend", and now my better half), who had located them in an online store and ordered them for me as a surprise!! Patience and perseverance rewarded in thrice? :-D

Wednesday, September 21, 2011

A Thousand Splendid Suns

In my new profile of having two full-time jobs (the regular work, and you guessed it, a growing-up kid), one of the things I miss is the leisure of curling up with a book, with no worry of mundane chores, and more important, no interruptions. In this while, I have barely been able to read. Three books in three years - sort of a record for me - a record low, that is :-). And whatever reading I managed was rather hurried, and a while ago. In no way sufficient to write a review, as I had been doing earlier for the books I was reading. Still, I'll try to capture whatever I can recollect of my impressions (for that is what my "reviews" typically are, I do not consciously try to outline the story).


A Thousand Splendid Suns - Khaled Hosseni

'The Kite Runner' had set quite high expectations for this one, and the editorial reviews/comments escalated them further. I was really looking forward to read this one, but by the time I got the book, I had a newborn to look after. To be honest, I almost rushed through it, omitting some parts here and there, that were not kind of contributing to the story, but to the picture. I might have had a different impression, if I had a chance to read it at more leisure, but I don't think I'll pick it up again to see if I missed things the first time around. Though I'm glad that I did manage to get through it.

I must say that it did not disappoint. It is a gripping and touching story, capturing the plight of women in Afghanistan quite well - their sheer helplessness in the face of constant contempt and abuse they are subjected to by men. Gender equality? I think they would be grateful if they are allowed to spend their lives, however constrained, with dignity. It reinforces how grief is a unifying factor like nothing else, and how hope can emerge, sustain, and win, even in the face of absolute dejection. It was highly engrossing - the reason I rushed through it, to at least read the story even if I could not manage to enjoy the book.

However, it did not quite live up the expectations. It seems to lack some of the distinguishing qualities of The Kite Runner - despite the constant feeling of sadness, Kite Runner didn't leave one gloomy. Kite Runner also presented a different kind of background - a land and culture which people in general are not very familiar with. Thousand Splendid Suns did not create that kind of interest, because of the more general theme. Also, I felt that at times, it was deliberately and dramatically stretched to paint a picture of misery so complete, that it was kind of trite. Perhaps this comes from reading more than a few stories by Indian authors, centered around the grief and pain of women that they suffer all alone.

Though I wonder if this is generally true for subsequent works of an author whose first work (or may be the first work one reads) creates a big impact with a radically new context and strong story? I remember this happened to me with Dan Brown - I simply loved Da Vinci Code, but didnt particularly like Angels and Demons. Some of my friends read Angels and Demons first, and admired it, but did not appreciate Da Vinci Code as much.

Soon to follow:
The Collector's Wife - Mitra Phukan
Mistress - Anita Nair


Monday, September 12, 2011

Filling in ...

Ah. After my determined resolution last week, I seem to be back to the square one - how and where to start. And all of a sudden, those numerous thoughts swirling in my mind seem to have disappeared away. Whew!

I might as well start with the reason for my long hiatus. The last post before my absence was on June 20th, 2008. My "life changing moment" occurred five days after that - Sid arrived into our life, turning it topsy-turvy :-) I now remember with a certain degree of amusement, that before he was born, how I planned to keep a record of his growing up years, his achievements, his deeds (and misdeeds), and my thoughts and reactions to it all, through my blog. And how, after he was here, I was just too occupied in the actual business of bringing him up, to even think about blogging! Now that he is three years old, he demands a lot of attention. To think of it, he did that earlier too - the only difference is that the reason for the demand has gone from physical needs to mental :-) Can I dare to hope for the things to improve, once he gets older, perhaps before the pressure for studies start?

In the last two years, I did get a few minutes to myself, here and there, abbreviated with needs for my intervention or attention, but this is hardly enough to think, and organize your thoughts, leave alone open a laptop (which  is something one can't do anyway, with a small kid around). I really don't understand whats it with kids and laptops - the laptops have a magnetic charm for them, even if you never ever play any videos and cartoons for them!

So, in last three years, I haven't blogged, I haven't read (except for a couple of books I managed to read in fragments, on solo flights or metro commutes), and I haven't travelled (except for one vacation last winter). To compensate for blogging and reading, I developed  a not-so-desirable addiction for facebook (which is something that can be managed in those short snatches of time, specially with the help of a wireless router and an iPod touch). To compensate for travelling, I picked up a near-obsession for photographing flowers, which is not that bad I think :-) I have been posting these pictures, that I took from my phone camera, in office, apartment complex, parks, or anywhere else I visited, on facebook. A number of times I considered posting them on my blog instead, but oh, the inertia!! This also brings me to blog vs facebook dilemma, but let me save this subject for another day.

The other major changes are relatively recent. I quit my first job after nearly ten-and-a-half years, and moved to a new workplace and a new city - something of a paradigm shift.

In last few months, I checked on the blogs I more or less regularly read (and not to forget, whose authors visited mine :-)). Some of them have stopped writing, and most of the rest are no longer active. Sad indeed.

Friday, September 09, 2011

And so I am back ...

... neither with a bang, nor with a whimper, but as normal as I can be :-)

My blogs have been severely neglected for over three years now. For last two years, and even more so the last one year, I have been giving a serious thought to resurrecting my blogging activities - there are so many thoughts take a seed in the mind, awaiting germination, taking root in imagination and consideration and concentration, and surface into the world. Thoughts craving for expression. And mind craving for some interaction [beyond "like" on Facebook, that is :-P ].

A lot has changed in this time, creating some real constraints on my activity here, the most significant being little uninterrupted time to concentrate and articulate. Though one of the major reasons is my organized/perfectionist self - I wanted to make my "comeback" well structured  - with appropriately described details and chronological events. Finally I came to terms with the fact that this is something that is not possible, realized that this is simply deferring my intent, and so I finally decided to make a start anyway, and with an idea that I'll pick up the threads here and there.

Friday, June 20, 2008

Almost Single

Almost Single - Advaita Kala

The more I think about it, the more difficult it seems to write something about it. For one, I am not sure how to characterize this book. It might be chick-lit, but not exactly so; it has elements of M&Bs, but altogether its substantially different. Perhaps I would liken it most to what we call a 'masala' movie :-)

It is a story of three bosom pals, ladies who are approaching the dreaded age of 30. One of them is getting divorced, and the other two are desperately looking for a good matrimonial catch [before they hit the expiry date from the marriage market ;-)]. They go through a lot of mishaps - comic and not-so-comic, before the first one frees herself of the trauma of divorce, and the other two find their soul-mates in unlikely places/people.

I looked at some online reviews of the book. Most of them claimed it to be an accurate commentary on urban, single, working Indian ladies - using phrases such as - "you will know a lot about what women think", "it gives you an insight into the minds of women, especially those nearing thirties", "it tells you a lot about relationships" ... you get the drift. From my personal experience, I have to disagree with all these exalting statements. The "relationship facts" seem a collection of cliches to me, and none of the single, working, nearing-30 ladies I know are like the characters in this book - they are too busy struggling to manage the demands of jobs, single-living, and parental pressures, to go partying every night. But then, I do not know any hard-partying, page-3-type people.

What I mean is that I do not think it represents real people, or at least the people of my world. Perhaps my world is too constricted :-) Having said this, I will also say that this is a good fun read, with a lot of humor.It moves at interesting pace, and keeps one entertained - commendable for the first book of an author. If you are not in a mood for serious reading, you can enjoy this book for the comical predicaments of its characters and witty humor it is interspersed with.

Thursday, June 19, 2008

Daag Dehlvi - IV

Agiyaar ke naale to bahut tumne sune hai.n
Mazloom ki taasiir-e-dua ko nahin dekha
[agiyaar=enemy/rival; mazloom=victim]

You listened attentively to the cries of my rival
Have you seen the effect of a victim's (my) prayers?

***

Zindagi mei.n paas se dam bhar na hote the juda
Kabr mei.n tanha mujhe yaaro.n ne kyun rakh diya

In my lifetime my friends didn't leave me for a moment
Why did the put me in my grave all alone

***

tu na kar nakhwat-e-shabaab bahut
hamne dekhe hai.n inqilaab bahut
[nakhwat-e-shabaab=proud of beauty; inquilab=changes]

Do not take so much pride in your beauty
I have seen a lot of drastic changes happen

***

Jis qadar maine tujhse khwahish ki
Usse mujh ko siva diya tune

Mujh gunahgaar ko jo bakhsh diya
Phir jahannum ko kya diya tune

O lord! As much as I asked of you
You always bestowed much more upon me

You pardoned a sinner like me
Then what did you give to the hell

***

Rahti hai kab bahaar-e-jawani tamaam umr
Maanind-e-bu-e-gul idhar aayi udhar gayi

The bloom of youth does not stay the entire life
Its like flower's fragrance - comes and goes away

***

Tangi-e-gosh-e-zinda.n ke ham khugar the
Gor mei.n bhi na kabhi paanv pasaare hamne
[Tangi-e-gosh-e-zinda.n=scarcity of a cell;khugar=used to; gor=grave]

I was so used to the lack of space in a cell
That even in the grave I never stretched my feet

Tuesday, June 10, 2008

Daag Dehlvi - III

Now for some couplets from some of his Ghazals ...


Baad muddat ke ye ai Daag samajh mei.n aayaa
Woh hi dana hai jis ne na mana dil ka
[dana=intelligent]

It was after a long time that I understood this
He is intelligent, who didn't listen to his heart

***

Marg-e-dushman ka jyada tumse hai mujhko malaal
Dushmani ka lutf shikwe ka mazaa jata raha

The death of my rival saddens me more than you
The thrill of enmity, and the joy of complaints are lost

***

Hazaaro.n hasratei.n wah hai.n ki roke se nahi.n rukti
Bahut armaan aise hai.n ki dil ke dil mei.n rahte hai.n

There are thousands of desires that cannot be controlled
There are many wishes that do not leave the heart

This 'sher' always reminds me of Ghalib's
'Hazaaro.n khwaahishein aisee ki har khwaahish pe dam nikle
Bahut nikle mere armaan, magar phir bhi kam nikle'
Apart from the choice of words, which is astoundingly similar, I think both try to convey the same thing.

***

Bemahal baat bhali bhi to buri hoti hai
Shukra karte hue darta hoo.n shikayat kaisi
[Bemahal=untimely]

At inappropriate time, even a nice thing sounds bad
I am afraid even to thank you, complaint is out of question

***

Kya us badgumaa.n se baat karei.n
Jo sataaish ko bhi gilaa jaane
[badgumaa.n=suspicious; sataaish=praise]

Tum na paaoge saadaa dil mujh sa
Jo tagaful ko bhi haya jaane

What to talk about with that suspicious one
Who considers praise to be criticism

You will not find another simple-hearted person like me
Who mistakes neglect for shyness

Monday, June 09, 2008

Authors Featured On This Blog

Advaita Kala
        - Almost Single

Agatha Christie
        - Hercule Poirot's Christmas
        - The Murder of Roger Ackroyd
 
Alan Bradley

Alexander McCall Smith
        - Tears of the Giraffe
        - In the Company of Cheerful Ladies 
        - The Sunday Philosophy Club

Alexander Pushkin
        - Tales

Alistair McLean
        - The Dark Crusader
        - The Way to Dusty Death
        - The Lonely Sea
        - Golden Rendezvous
        - Partisans 

Amish Tripathi
        - The Immortal of Meluha 
        - The Secret of The Nagas
        - The Oath of Vayuputras
        - Scion of Ikshvaku

Amulya Malladi
        - Song of The Cuckoo Bird

Anand Neelakantan
        - Asura - Tale of the Vanquished

Anita Nair
        - Mistress
        - Goodnight And God Bless
        - The Better Man

Ann Brashares
        - Sisterhood of Traveling Pants

Arthur Golden
        - Memoirs of a Geisha

Arundhati Venkatesh
        - Bookasura

Asha Miro
        - Daughter Of The Ganges

Audrey Niffenegger
        - The Time Traveller's Wife

Carlos Ruiz Zafon
        - The Shadow of The Wind

Chetan Bhagat
        - One Night At The Call Centre
        - Revolution 2020

Chitra Banerjee Divakurni
        - The Palace of Illusions

Dan Brown
        - Angels And Demons
        - Digital Fortress
        - The Lost Symbol

David Baldacci
        - The Christmas Train
 
David Rosenfelt

Dhruva Chak
        - Chatterjee Babu : His Life And Lies

Dick Francis
        - Longshot

Elizabeth Gilbert
        - Eat, Pray, Love

Eric Segal
        - Prizes

Frank B. Gilbreth Jr
        - Cheaper By The Dozen
 
Gabriel García Márquez
        - Love in the Time of Cholera
 
 
Gita Mehta
        - A River Sutra

Harinder Sikka
        - Calling Sehmat 

Helen Simonson

Indu Sunderasan
        - The Twentieth Wife
        - The Feast Of Roses
        - The Mountain of Light 
        - In The Convent of Little Flowers

Ira Trivedi
        - What Would You Do To Save The World

Iravati Karwe
        - Yuganta

Iris Rainer Dart
        - Beaches

Ismat Chugtai
        - Chidi Ki Dukki

J. K. Rowling
        - Harry Potter and The Cursed Child
 
Jessica Fletcher
 

Jhumpa Lahiri
        - The Namesake

Joan Brock
        - More Than Meets The Eye 

Joanne Harris
        - Five Quarters Of The Orange
        - Gentlemen And Players
        - Peaches for Monsieur le Curé

John Boyne
        - The Boy in the Striped Pyjamas

John Grisham
        - The Last Juror

Jug Suraiya
        - Delhi Belly

Kaavyaa Vishwanathan
        - How Opal Mehta Got Kissed, Got Wild And Got A Life

Kamala K. Kapur
        - Ganesha Goes to Lunch

Kavita Kane
        - Karna's Wife - The Outcast's Queen

Ken Follet
        - The ModiGliani Scandal
        - A Place Called Freedom

Khaled Hosseini
        - The Kite Runner
        - A Thousand Splendid Suns

Kiran Desai
        - The Inheritance Of Loss

Krishan Chander
        - Ek Gadhe Ki Atmakatha

Kristin Hannah
        - Firefly Lane

L. M. Montgomery
        - Anne of Green Gables
 
Laura Childs
 
Lorna Barrett
 
Louise Penny

Mark Haddon
        - The Curious Incident Of The Dog In The Night

Mary Ann Shaffer
        - The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society

Michael Gannon
        - Secret Missions

Mitra Phukan
        - The Collector's Wife

M T Vasudevan Nair
        - Bhima - Lone Warrior

N. H. Kleinbaum
        - Dead Poets Society

Neil Gaiman
        - Sleeper And The Spindle

Nevil Shute
        - A Town Like Alice
        - On The Beach
        - Pied Piper 
        - Requiem For A Wren

Nina George
        - The Little Paris Bookshop 

Preeti Shenoy
        - Tea For Two And a Piece of Cake

R. K. Narayan
        - Gods, Demons and Others
        - The Painter of Signs

Raj Kamal Jha
        - If You Are Afraid Of Heights

Richard Bach
        - Jonathon Livingstone Seagull

Richard Feynman
        - Surely You are Joking Mr. Feynman

Richard North Patterson
        - Eyes of A Child

Rider Haggard
        - She

Roald Dahl
        - Matilda

Rob Nunn
        - The Criminal Mastermind of Baker Street

Robert Galbraith (J. K. Rowling)
        - The Silkworm

Robert James Waller
        - The Bridges of Madison County

Ruskin Bond
        - Book of Humor
        - Room on the Roof/Vagrants in the Valley 
 
Sankar
        - Chowringhee

Sarang Mahajan
        - Inkredia - Luwan of Brida

Satyajit Ray
        - The Adventures of Feluda - II

Shilpa Somaya Gowda
        - Secret Daughter

Shivani
        - Chaudah Phere

Sophie Kinsella
        - The Undomestic Goddess

Srinath Perur
        - If It's Monday, It Must Be Madurai

Sudha Murthy
        - Wise and Otherwise

Sudhir Venkatesh
        - Gangleader For A Day

Sue Townsend
        - The Secret Diary of Adrian Mole

T F Carthick
        - Carthick's Unfairy Tales
 
The Three Investigators

William Dalrymple
        - Nine Lives

William Goldman
        - The Princess Bride

Yann Martel
        - The Life Of Pi

Sunday, June 08, 2008

How can I have sub-categories in labels

I post a lot of poetry and book reviews on this blog. And I want to have a quick access to the works of a particular poet/author I have posted about. If I create labels for each poet and author, it will make my labels' list unmanageable. And Blogger does not allow me to have sub-categories under a label (ah! how I would love that feature!).

I know the answer is - get your own domain and you can have code that will do this for you. But that is too much work to do when all I want to do is simply to post. Moreover, where will I find time to create and manage a site, when I dont even have enough time to read all the blogs I'd like to, or post on my own.

What I have resorted to for now is create a post, and compile lists of poets and authors in separate posts, and link to these posts on the navigation pane. It is still not a single-click access as I desire, but at least one can manage in two. Any ideas how to do it better?


Friday, June 06, 2008

Daag Dehlvi - II

Sharing another ghazal by Daag Dehlvi. It is nice, but I find it amusing more than anything else, specially because of the second couplet.


Jab jawaani ka mazaa jata raha
Zindagaani ka mazaa jata raha

Woh kasam khaate hai.n ab har baat par
Badgumani ka mazaa jata raha

Gair par lutf-o-karam hone laga
Meherbaani ka mazaa jata raha

Daastaan-e-ishq jab thahri galat
Har kahaani ka mazaa jata raha

Daag hi ke dam se tha lutf-e-sukhan
Khushbayaani ka mazaa jata raha


When the joy of youth was lost
The joy of life was gone

She now swears about everything
There is no pleasure in doubting now

She has started bestowing favors on rivals
I no longer enjoy her attentions

When the story of our love became untrue
Every tale lost its joy

It was Daag who made poetry enjoyable
Without him, there is no beautiful verse


The last sher of this ghazal reminds me of one of Ghalib's couplets -

Yuu.n to hai.n duniya mein sukhanwar kaii achhe
Kahte hai.n ki Ghalib ka hai andaaz-e-bayaan aur

There are many good poets in this world
But Ghalib's style has a class of its own